In the most recent episode of 90 Day Fiancé, Any Aguirre officially decided which of her partners she wanted to marry, and I’m not surprised, but I think what occurred next hints at the bigger issues within their dynamic. Matt and Amani Jlassi’s relationship with Any hasn’t been easy since they first appeared on the 90 Day Fiancé franchise. Despite the married couple being in a relationship with Any longer than her ex, they recently discovered just how much she had been hiding from them. They didn’t even know Any’s legal name. Her ex, Rey, told them at that meeting that her name was actually Brenda.
This caused the married couple to confront Any to get some answers. Once Any came forward with the truth and told her family they were a throuple, Matt and Amani felt comfortable enough to move forward with the divorce process. However, the throuple still have some major decisions to make, including who Any will marry, since multiple marriages aren’t allowed in the US. In “Too Late for Love,” Any made her decision and, honestly, I expected it considering the path the three of them have been on. Not only that, but I can’t help but notice that more red flags keep appearing, and I’m more rooted in my belief that this relationship isn’t built to last.
’90 Day Fiancé’s Any’s Made Her Decision
Before Any made her decision, Amani bared her soul with her girlfriend and expressed her desire to get married to her, even though it was “selfish.” According to Amani, it was still her life-long dream to have a beautiful wedding, especially since she and Matt eloped over a decade ago. She also explained in her confessional that it was also her life-long dream to “marry a woman” and fully “embrace” her “sexuality.” Amani also declared that Any knew the struggle she experienced with her sexuality when she was younger and hoped her girlfriend would help her overcome those struggles through marriage together.
However, Any chose to marry Matt, which I expected, and I am unsure how Amani didn’t. Matt and Any seemed to have connected best on the trip, despite Any claiming to love Amani more and only being “in the relationship” for her. Amani also noticed their relationship escalating and mentioned several times in her confessionals that her girlfriend’s connection with her husband seemed to be blossoming more so than hers. Coupled with Any’s desire to hide the throuple situation from her family, I think Any wanted to marry Matt all along, and I’m not sure how honest she’s being about her feelings towards Amani.
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What Does This Mean For the Throuple?
Initially, I wouldn’t think Any’s decision to be a big deal. The marriage is solely for visa and legal purposes. Otherwise, the throuple intends to live and raise a family together just as a traditional two-person-marriage household would. However, I think the issue more lies with Amani. After Any revealed she wanted to marry Matt, Amani didn’t take the news well, which seems to be a recurring pattern. Part of me understands Amani’s point of view. Amani had to hide part of herself for many years and the relationship with Any is triggering because she feels like she’s in a similar situation.
I also think Amani took a big risk by opening up about her feelings considering the marriage and Any’s decision may have felt a little dismissive to her. However, Amani gives off more of a jealous girlfriend or wife type of vibe and I can’t help but wonder if she is truly okay with the throuple. In the confessionals, Amani seems to talk about her sexuality and what the throuple means for her, but seems to struggle with her emotions when it comes to her husband experiencing intimacy with another woman. I also felt a little suspicious about Amani’s desire to marry Any. Did Amani truly want to be married to a woman or did she want to make sure her spot in the throuple was secure in some fashion?
While I understand Amani’s reactions contribute to Any’s hesitancy, I think the couple has a lot more work to do before they should even consider proceeding with a divorce and then the K-1 visa. I think more specifically, Amani needs to figure out if the throuple really is what she wants. Something about their situation seems off, and I’m left wondering who’s really in love with whom. Perhaps this was also what Amani was thinking and why she reacted strongly to Any’s decision.